Jude Bacalso, the Viral LGBT Customer Issues Official Statement After Controversy Involving Waiter
JUDE BACALSO – The viral LGBT customer, has broken his silence after reportedly making a waiter stand for hours as punishment.
Recently, Jude Bacalso has finally addressed the recent controversy where he allegedly made a waiter stand for hours as punishment for calling him “Sir.” The incident, which took place at a restaurant in Cebu City, has garnered various reactions online.
Bacalso has clarified that he did not intend to punish the waiter but instead aimed to address a matter of respect and sensitivity. He explained that he did not force the waiter to stand for two hours; rather, the situation was a result of waiting to resolve the issue with the restaurant’s management.
The viral customer acknowledged his close relationship with the restaurant’s owner, a transwoman whose transition he has witnessed over the years. He chose to address the issue directly with the restaurant’s management rather than airing his grievances publicly.
The writer suggested that a gender sensitivity seminar might help prevent similar issues in the future, and the restaurant’s supervisor agreed that such training could be beneficial.
Despite the criticism, Jude emphasized that he did not react harshly to being misgendered. He mentioned that being called “Sir” is something he encounters frequently, and he sees it as an opportunity to educate others about gender sensitivity.
He points out that Cebu City is known for its anti-discrimination ordinances, which were partly driven by local LGBT+ activists.
The LGBT member noted that the seminar offered by accredited practitioners aims to educate establishments on inclusive practices and prevent discrimination. He stressed the importance of vigilance and continuous advocacy to address and correct errors, even small ones, to prevent more significant issues.
In a previous report, an LGBT customer makes waiter stand for hours as punishment for calling him ‘sir’
While Bacalso’s actions earned criticism from internet users, he remains focused on promoting understanding and respect within the community.
The social media users expressed their reactions to the post:
whatever mam/sir..transgender should.not be a woman whatever happens because theres no essence of being a woman such a reproductive system and a.menstrual cycle experience during teenage until such period.okay, even in toilets only he and she ..no bayot toilet..and you even knew you use “he” when using public toilets right? so theres no misgendered ..the waiter just honestly and respectly address you as sir.thats it.