Here Are Some Tips On How To Be More Social
HOW TO – For shy people or introverts, it could be a difficult step to go out of their comfort zone and start talking to new people and make friends.
Although there’s nothing wrong with being introverted, having a few friends would really be nice. There really is no serious danger in an attempt to open up to other people. Also, social connection could be offer great help in the long run.
Filipino celebrity Xian Lim was reportedly bullied in the past for being an introvert.
For starters, aiming straight for huge circles may be a lot difficult than you think. So to effectively make the transition, it is better to do it gradually.
Here are very simple and easy steps to becoming more social:
START WITH A FEW PEOPLE
Don’t take huge leaps and dive into huge circles immediately. It is recommended that you start with people who you’re already familiar with but not know much about. Start talking to these people in dinner occasions, parties, or whatever event.
TALK TO RANDOM PEOPLE
Talk to people in the train, or someone sitting in the park, just random people you meet everyday. And as an ice breaker, you can ask “what time is it?” or compliment someone’s clothes. There are plenty of ways to start a conversation.
TRY TO IMITATE LIKEABLE PEOPLE
When you notice likeable people, there are certain qualities about them that makes them appealing to other people. So try to observe and use those qualities in your attempt.
LOOK FOR A HOBBY THAT INCLUDES INTERACTION WITH OTHER PEOPLE
Look for a hobby, make sure you actually like it, otherwise it’ll become a burden. After finding a hobby that you like, start looking for people who are interested in the same hobby. This is one of the best ways to start building a social circle.
These are based on an article from Possibility of Change.
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