Woman Shares Her Thoughts After Marrying Unemployed Boyfriend but Handsome
A woman shared her thoughts in an online platform about her husband who is unemployed but good-looking.
Recently, a Reddit user ‘ScarcityRelative9731’ opened up about how her low self-esteem led her to date someone who doesn’t work but is attractive. The post immediately spread like a wildfire online and elicited comments from netizen.
In her post, she explained that she felt she wasn’t very beautiful and believed that someone like her would only attract a partner with a job. However, she ended up in a relationship with a handsome man who doesn’t contribute financially.
From the beginning of their dating journey, she noticed that she was the one always spending money. Now that they are married, she continues to be the sole breadwinner.
The woman mentioned that she tried to help her husband learn some basic work skills, like sending emails as a virtual assistant, but he struggled with even that. This made her question whether he truly couldn’t learn or if he was simply comfortable with her being the provider.
The lady netizen expressed concern over how he seems to have no personal finances and often feels sorry for himself when comparing his situation to his wealthier classmates.
The woman also shared insights about her husband’s background, revealing that he was spoiled by his mother and grandmother. Even at over 30 years old, he relied on his mother for laundry and meals.
Now that they are married, he suggested he could be a stay-at-home husband, but he still leaves all the decisions about cooking and household management up to her. Many netizens empathized with her struggles.
While her story is claimed to be real, the truth behind the details cannot be verified.
In a previous post, a disappointed netizen expresses sentiments on company’s high standards when hiring workers
Here is the full post:
“I married a Disney Prince
Sa baba ng self-esteem ko, pumatol ako ng walang work pero pogi. Hindi kasi ako maganda. E alam kong papatulan ako kasi may work ako.
Mula nung nagumpisa kaming nagdate, ako lang gumagastos. Ngayon mag-asawa na kami, ako pa din nagwowork. Tinuturuan ko ng work as a VA na sending emails lang, the most basic, pero hindi niya kaya. Minsan naiisip ko, hindi niya ba talaga kaya or kampante lang siya na willing naman akong provider so hindi siya nageeffort?
Siya lang yung taong nameet ko na walang kusang magkasariling pera. Tapos minsan sasabihin niya na naaawa siya sa sarili niya kasi mga batchmates niya mayayaman.
Background pala niya: naspoiled siya ng nanay at lola niya. 30+ na siya noong start ng dating stage namin e nanay niya pa din naglalaba damit niya at nagluluto para sa kanya.
Dito sa bahay, sabi niya mag houseband nalang siya. Ginagawa naman niya mga chores pero p*cha, lahat ng desisyon kung ano lulutuin, paano iluto, icocover niya daw ba mga di nakain ma food, san ba daw niya ilalagay ganito ganyan, ako pa din magdedesisyon.
Nakakapagod.”
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