Woman Expresses Frustration After Boyfriend Pawns Her Promise Ring and Uses the Money for Gambling
A woman expresses her frustration after discovering that her boyfriend pawned the promise ring she gave him, without informing her.
Recently, ValkyrieFreyja_, a Reddit user, shared her sentiments after her boyfriend allegedly pawned the promise ring she gave him. The post immediate spread like wildfire on social media and elicited comments from netizens.
Freyja revealed that she found a receipt in her boyfriend’s wallet while searching for spare coins. To her surprise, the receipt showed that he had pawned the ring at a local pawnshop. She shared that the promise ring was a meaningful gift she had given to him, which made the discovery even more painful.
When she confronted her boyfriend, he admitted that he pawned the ring to cover their family’s grocery expenses and to place a bet in a cockfight. He explained that he was short on money at the time and had no other options.
However, the woman felt deeply hurt, not because of the financial decision, but because he did it without discussing it with her first.
She explained that she would have understood the situation if he had been honest and upfront about it. Instead, the lack of communication left her feeling disrespected and betrayed.
Some sympathized with her situation and encouraged her to prioritize trust and respect in the relationship, others criticized her boyfriend’s decision to gamble with the money.
Here is the full post:
“Problem/Goal: nadiscover ko (F27) sa wallet ng bf (M31) ko habang naghahanap ng coins yung resibo from Cebuana na sinangla niya pala Ang promise ring na binigay ko.
Context: natutulog siya while naghanap ako ng barya and then I saw the receipt. I was so hurt kase papayag naman ako if sinabi niya saken. I know binigay ko na sa kaniya yung but gusto ko lang sana pinaalam niya saken.
Attempts: I confronted him and nasaktan ko siya. Also, I discovered na ginamit niya raw sa sabong(pusta) at pang grocery sa kanila Kase short daw siya.
I dont know. Gusto kong makipaghiwalay na dahil don huhu”
In another post, Jelai Andres buys herself a diamond promise ring for 31st birthday
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