Bea Borres Admits She Can No Longer Love Her Ex Again
BEA BORRES – From heartbreak to healing, Bea Borres bravely shared the painful realities of motherhood, co-parenting, and raising her daughter without a complete family.
Bea Borres has officially moved on from the father of her child and admitted that she no longer has any plans of getting back together with him.
During her guest appearance on the talk show Fast Talk with Boy Abunda, which aired on YouTube on May 8, Bea opened up about her current relationship with Meray Yamada, the father of her daughter. Host Boy Abunda asked her if they were currently co-parenting their child together.
“No, I’m co-parenting with his mom, wala akong masabi kay Tita! Tita, if you’re watching napakabait mo, pero ‘yung anak mo talaga hindi ko gusto, charot lang (natawa),” casually shared Bea.
The social media personality revealed that after giving birth, she and Meray attempted to live together and act as a complete family. However, things did not work out the way she had hoped.
“Tito Boy, I tried, nagsama kami, nag-acting kami bilang pamilya pero bumalik lahat ng sakit, eh. Kasi when I was pregnant wala talagang anything, eh. Siguro nage-expect pa rin ako na he would try kasi nakalabas na ‘yung daughter namin pero wala talaga.
“One thing I learned from men is if they really wanted they would kahit na anong sabihin kong ‘ayaw ko, wag mong kitain ang anak ko’ pupuntahan niya kasi gusto niya at anak niya ‘yun! Pero wala talaga, walang ganu’n, eh,” Bea explained.
She also became emotional while talking about the difficult time she experienced during her pregnancy. Bea admitted that while living in America, she briefly considered not continuing her pregnancy because of the hardships she was facing.
“I don’t wanna put in that way Tito Boy pero siyempre nasa Amerika (ako) left and right ang clinic, so, I considered it na what if hindi ko na ituloy?
“(Pero) Takot po ako sa Diyos! I’m not the most religious person pero takot na takot po ako talaga kay Lord. Kahit I ask for forgiveness may nadamay na baby at natatakot ako na baka i-take away ni Lord kung anong meron ako,” she confessed.
Bea shared that she went through pregnancy without her parents by her side after both of them passed away due to illness. Until now, her grandmother continues to support her and help her raise her daughter, Victoria Hope.
The vlogger also reflected on growing up in a household where her parents constantly fought. Because of this, she promised herself that her daughter would never experience the same environment.
When asked what message she would like her daughter to hear years from now, Bea answered honestly and humorously.
“’Wag siyang tangang pumili ng lalaki (natawa). Hope, I really, really love you as in sobra kitang mahal, love you more than I loved myself and I pray na sana talaga mapunta ka sa tamang lalaki or babae in the future kasi sobrang laking part ‘yan sa life mo,” she said.
Bea also revealed that Victoria Hope was born prematurely at eight months and had to stay in an incubator after birth.
“Nu’ng nilabas ko siya, she was premature, nilabas ko ng 8 months at naka-incubator kaya ang hirap maging masaya kasi nilalaban niya talaga ‘yung life niya and I was really, really sad and kinda blame myself pero napakatapang po ng daughter ko,” Bea recalled.
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