Woman’s Posts About Breadwinner Boyfriend Goes Viral Online
A woman’s post about her breadwinner boyfriend who doesn’t want her dream wedding worth P500k went viral online.
Recently, a woman posted her breadwinner boyfriend who doesn’t want her dream wedding worth P500, 000. The post immediately spread like wildfire on social media and elicited reactions online.
The anonymous uploader on Reddit revealed that her boyfriend is the main provider for his family, with all of his earnings allegedly going towards his parents, leaving him with no savings. She expressed feeling that her boyfriend is not yet ready to settle down and marry her.
However, when she brought up the topic of marriage, her boyfriend reportedly mentioned his willingness to marry her but only through a civil ceremony, rather than a lavish wedding. The lady stated that money is not an issue for her as she has managed to save up, aiming for a grand wedding costing around P500k.
The female netizen admitted feeling disappointed by her boyfriend’s response because she dreams of having a beautiful wedding. She is reconsidering marrying her boyfriend, despite having her own money and possessions, as her feelings for him take priority over.
Here is the full post:
“My (30F) boyfriend (34M) is the breadwinner of their family. Halos lahat ng sweldo niya napupunta sa parents niya. wala siyang ipon, And it seems hindi pa siya ready to settle down with me. Now I asked him, if may plans ba siya for us. He said meron, but he can’t marry me in a church and have the wedding of my dreams. Civil marriage lang raw maooffer niya. I already told him that I have the money to spend for my dream wedding estimated 500k. Eh ayaw naman niya, wag raw ako gumastos ng malaki and hahatian naman raw niya ako, wag lang ganun kalaki. Eh ganyan naman na talaga ung normal range ng gastos sa kasal eh?
I was a little disappointed kasi pangarap ko magkaroon ng magandang kasal. Maybe hindi kami aligned ng goals ng partner ko. But he is really a loving and caring parnter kaya I am also blessed to have him in my life.
In my situation, hindi ako breadwinner, may ipon ako, financially stable. may sariling bahay at kotse. Kaya gusto ko na talaga magkaron ng sariling pamilya
gusto ko na makipaghiwalay kesa tumagal pa. pero mahal ko pa rin siya, kaso magiging unfair ako sakniya. kasi what if pumayag nga ako sa civil wedding, baka after nun, magkaroon ako ng resentment sakaniya dahil hindi natuloy yung gusto ko…
ayoko maging toxic towards him. maybe he deserves someone na maghihintay kahit gaano katagal”
In a similar story, the alleged man behind P299 engagement ring speaks up: “ako po yung breadwinner”
The social media users expressed their reactions to the post:
