Lady Netizen Shares Funny Experience Dating a “Broke” Guy “nanghihingi grabe talaga”
A lady netizen received mixed reactions online after sharing her experience of dating a guy with no money.
Recently, tr0ubl3_di4ri3s, a Reddit user, shared her frustrating experience dating a guy with no money. The post immediately spread like wildfire on social media and elicited comments from the netizens.
According to her post, the two met through a dating app and hit it off because they worked in the same field. Feeling comfortable, they decided to meet at a nearby Starbucks. She arrived first and ordered her drink, only to have him show up and casually let her pay for his order as well.
The guy, it turned out, often relied on her for financial support. He even asked her for money to buy dog food and borrowed from her to buy clothes for a baptism, even requesting an expensive brand.
Things get worse when he tried to make her buy him a vape and failed to return her gaming mouse, which annoyed her even more.
Despite all this, she gave him the benefit of the doubt at first, thinking he was just struggling because he was a family breadwinner. She admired his intelligence and found their conversations meaningful, which initially made her overlook his financial issues.
However, his constant “pity card” and negative energy eventually wore her down. They stopped communicating after a month and a half. She decided it was best to cut ties, even though he later told her friend she had “ghosted” him.
The lady netizen laughed at her own mistakes, calling it a valuable lesson not to date someone who brings more trouble than joy.
Here is the full post:
“YES. AS IN. BROKE. ASS. DUDE. Ewan ko pero pag naaalala ko natatawa ako shuta. Nagkakilala kami sa bee app, then nalaman ko na same kami ng field ng work so syempre mas palagay loob ko.
nagplano kami mag meet sa sb malapit sa work niya, nauna ako ng mga ilang mins then umorder na ako. medyo may pila, so habang umoorder ako may nagsalita sa likod ko. andon na pala siya, bago pa ko maka react ang tanong ko agad is “anong order mo?” (that time kasi nag iipon din ako ng stickers hahaha) pota siguro yun yung point na naisip niya na pwede ko siyang ilibre anytime. maling mali talaga.
pati pagkain ng aso niya sakin nanghihingi grabe talaga haha. 70 nalang laman ng gcash ko non tapos sabi niya “sige ok na yan wala kasi pang dog food aso ko” shutek ka aso-aso ka tapos wala kang pangkain HAHAHA.
kahit pandamit niya sa binyag umutang siya sakin pambili, pamasok sa work na polo (gusto pa h&m ta3na) tapos pati vape gusto sakin magpabili. di ko na binilhan, bahala siya mamaho kakayosi hahaha.
ang kinakainis ko pa di binalik yung gaming mouse ko na rakk! hahaha 4 months bago nabayaran yung 2k na utang. NEVER TALAGA SA MGA BROKE NA FEELING POGI.
UPDATE: hahahaha tawang tawa ako sa mga comment! di ko na masagot yung iba pero ito yung ibang info:
- 1 month and a half lang kaming nag usap. siguro 5 times kami nagkita HAHAHAHAHA
- sa mga nag ask bakit di ko agad tinigil, or di ako agad naturn off, magaling daw ba? etc. di ko siya na-judge agad kasi di ko naman inisip na isscamin niya ako. kasi ok siya kausap. matalino. may sense. eh during that time ganun hanap ko. kasi nga ang nasa isip ko panay HU lang sa bee app so baka iba siya.
- breadwinner daw kasi siya kaya madalas wala siyang pera kasi nga kinukuha ng parents niya kasi nag aaral pa mga kapatid niya, siya daw toka sa kuryente, groceries at internet nila so baka nasho-short nga siya. yun ang nasa isip ko that time kasi convincing yung paawa niya
- nalibre niya ako isang beses sa kanto freestyle worth 250 pesos nung bonus niya
- nung tinigil ko na yung communication namin, nagchat siya sa bff ko (pinakilala ko siya sa bff ko na gay) na ghinost ko raw siya, kahit nagsend na ako sa bff ko ng ss na nag usap kami kasi nga di ko na kaya yung negative vibes niya parang nadadala ko na. kasi kada mag uusap kami lagi niya sinasabi walang kwenta fam niya ganon kasi ginagatasan siya ng pera. tapos gusto nalang daw niya bumukod, basta yung mga typical paawa effect
- tagal na kaming di nag uusap. naalala ko lang siya kasi kinailangan ko ng mouse last time eh naisip ko yung di niya binalik kainis HAHAHAHAHAHA
- mas lalong di po ako sugar mommy hahahaha, mapagbigay lang po ako kasi yun yung kinalakihan ko.
wag niyo na ako sisihin natuto naman na ako hahaha. kahit ako tangang-tanga sa sarili ko that time. nai-share ko lang HAHAHA TY”
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