Female Netizen Expresses Regret for Marrying Her Irresponsible Husband
A female netizen expressed her regret for marrying her husband, whom she described as acting like a carefree bachelor with no sense of responsibility.
In a Reddit post, a lady netizen regrets marrying her husband; she admitted that she ignored the red flags early in their relationship, thinking things would change after marriage. The post garnered various reactions from the online community.
The wife revealed that she left her job after giving birth, relying on her husband for financial support. It became a struggle, as she often felt like she had to beg for money just to cover her basic needs.
The situation worsened when she confronted her husband about his lifestyle and financial habits. Instead of having an honest conversation, he lashed out, upset that she messaged him during an outing with his friends.
The confrontation made her realize that he prioritized his bachelor-like lifestyle over his family responsibilities, while she was left stressed and sleep-deprived caring for their baby.
Frustrated and emotionally drained, she finally decided to end the marriage. She plans to create an agreement for child support, allowing her husband to continue living the bachelor life he seems to prefer.
“Parang I need to beg money para bigyan lang nya ko ng pera. Kahapon confront ko sya about his lifestyle and financial issue, tumawag sakin galit na galit alam ko daw nasa outing sya i message ko sya ng ganon. I was like wow binatang binata samantalang ako puyat at stress dahil sa baby namin,” the woman said.
The woman reflected on the red flags she ignored, such as his bad influence on friends, poor financial habits, and being overly dependent on his mother. These issues became more apparent after they got married and had a child.
She admitted that she believed his promises to change, thinking he would prioritize their family once they were married. Unfortunately, those promises were never fulfilled, leaving her to face the harsh reality of their relationship.