Female Lawyer Addressed Why She Doesn’t Respond to Random Messages
A female lawyer goes viral online in response to random messages in an anonymous question app, saying, ‘Mataas talaga standard ko!’.
Recently, Kathrine Jessica Calano, a Facebook user, addressed why she doesn’t respond to random messages in an anonymous question app. Her response garnered various reactions from the online community.
The female lawyer explained that she doesn’t feel obligated to reply to messages from people she doesn’t know. She explained that it’s not about being rude but about saving time and maintaining standards.
Atty. Calano emphasizes the importance of mental stimulation in conversations. The young woman said that a message should at least be mentally stimulating for her to reply.
She gets bored with guys who don’t ask questions to know me better or who don’t share stories that help me understand them. Physical attraction is common, but mental connection is rare,” she noted.
Calano also mentioned that she doesn’t usually respond to men who are chatty online but shy or uncommunicative in person. This attitude has led to some people labeling her as having high standards.
The young woman explained that she is not hard to approach but the person is just using the wrong approach. She added that some people warn her she might never get married because of her high standards, but she isn’t bothered by this.
“Edi huwag. Pag-aasawa lang ba ang ultimate goal sa life? Kaysa naman ibaba ko standards ko para lang madaliin ang pag-aasawa tapos iiyak-iyak ako inside marriage,” she said.
Many netizens admired Atty. Calano’s stance, praising her for voicing what many women in similar situations feel. Her words have resonated with many, inspiring a dialogue about self-worth and standards in relationships.
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