Young Girl Bursts Into Tears After Classmate Returned Her Gift During Christmas Party
EXCHANGE GIFT – A young girl gets emotional and bursts into tears after her classmate returned her gift during their Christmas party.
A Facebook user named Christine Ursua Francisco has shared the video footage of her daughter crying after her classmate returned her gift. The video garnered various reactions from the online community.
Francisca narrated that it was the first time of her daughter Criza Maine joined a Christmas party. Criza spends time and effort buying a gift for their Christmas party. She bought a pop bag worth more than P100.
Initially, the Christmas party goes well during snacks, games, and the exchange of gifts. After the party, Criza told her mom that her classmate returned the gift. The girl expressed her pain and sadness due to what happened.
The incident caused trauma to the little girl who refused to give or receive a gift at other Christmas parties.
Christine encourages other kids to be grateful and appreciative of what they have received during the exchange of gifts.
Here is the full post:
“First time ni CRIZA MAINE ko na sumali sa xmas Party!!!
KUNG MAY TIME KAU MAGBASA
Mag rant lng ako pasensya na fb friends di kc ako makamove on alam ko napahiya at nsaktan anak ko..Sa iba cguro maliit n bagay to pero sken iba tlga pag anak ko ang sumama ang loob..
So eto na nga: Criza ung bunso ko ugali nya tlga na pag magreregalo ay sya ang mamimili so akong mother ehh go lng khit magkano pa yan.. i told her na 100 pataas ang price dapat..so she choose this pop it bag pra panregalo nya.. So the xmas party begins…the program goes on kainan, games exchanging gifts nakuha ng anak ko parang damit pero d namin binuksan sabi ko s bahay na.. after the party i choose to help their teacher to clean the room..mya mya lumapit sken anak ko sadly says “ma binalik ung gift ko”.. before that pala sinauli ng kapalitan nya with her mother ung gift nya at kinuha dn ung gift nung bata in front of other classmates…nakita ko ung sadness sa mukha nya pra d magpatuloy ung lungkot i told her na its ok baby just sit there i will just finish this then will go home bibilhan kita ng ibang gift.. habang pauwi kami she said “ma ayaw nila ng gift ko?” Pra akong dinurog shutanesss.. sbi ko n lng s knya hindi baby bka di lng sya mahilig sa girl things..tara na lakad n uwi n tayo..grabe may ganun pala kaya ayoko isasali mga anak ko sa mga ganyan party..first time nya to join this year at sya lng s mga anak ko ang sumali s gnyan..kya grabe nasaktan ako pra sa anak ko..
GIVE LOVE ON CHRISTMAS DAY pero ang nangyari returning gifts on christmas day for me worth it naman for 100+ ung gift ng baby ko hindi naman yan lower.. magaganit naman kc girl din kapalitan nya..pero bakit kaya?
PS: WLA NA PO ANG BAG NA YAN binenta ko n agad pra d NA nya makita pa..AT HINDI NA PO AKO NAGBEBENTA AT MAGBEBENTA nyan..”
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so sad that the returnee wasn’t taught by his parents to appreciate whatever gift she receives whether its cheap.or expensive.
Parent factor yan un nag soli ng gift hindi naturuan ng tamang asal baka ganun din nanay nun materyosang frog! Kagigil, ganda naman ng gift mo baby. Sampalin ko un nanay ng ng sauli ng gift
Yes good manners and right conduct learn from parents and home not from school!
Baka ang magulang ng nagbalik ng bag walang pinag-aralan kaya hindi nya tinuturuan ng magandang asal ang anak nya
Soo sad.I felt sorry for the little girl.For the teachers over there,Next time ,parents nalang dapat magbigay regalo sa anak.In my 33years experience in teaching,i never met such kind of attitude from my pupils.
yes po u are correct po. that is why i told my parents every time we celebrate xmas party, specially on toddlers. i told the parents that it should be a wish gifts. the parents will buy their child’s wish gift. after the party, the kids are happy and contented for their presents.
If that kid’s attitude is not corrected early on, like in her younger years she will be carrying it until she gets old. I have an officemate who complains like nobody could hear her rant and even putting price to the “exchange gift”.
Grabe, habang binabasa ko to naiiyak din ako.
Kahit hindi ako yung bata, masakit para sakin kasi parang nakikita ko yung kapatid ko sa kaniya. Ayaw ko ring masaktan ang kapatid ko.
Sana po ay makakuha siya ng ka-exchange gift na sobrang tanggap ang regalo niya para maging masaya na si Baby.
Yong nanay ang walang modo tinuruan pa nya yong anak nya na maging walang modo.
Sa bata na napahiya hwag kng magaalala magdasal ka lng para paglaki mo mas maunlad ka kaysa sa kanya.
For me bata yan walang kasalanan pareho that is their emotion be it siguro bith parent na lang mag enlight sa 2 bata… just saying
well, ang sakit nito sa part ng magulang ng bata marinig mo galing sa kanyang inosenteng tanong na” mommy di nala gusto yung gift ko or sinuli ying gift ko” kailangan mo talaga ng pasinsya at positibong explaination para di masaktan yung damdamin ng anak mo. nakakalungkot lang isipin na sa panahon ngayon hindi maiiwasan na may mga bata talaga na ganito kasi siguro di rin nila alam or hindi na explain or nasabihan ng other parent na exchanging gift is not for pabunggahan or pag hindi ko gusto di ko gusto. kaya before sana umattend ng party let your child orient or give some advice na pag ano man ma received mo coming from your classmates dapat i appreciate mo because christmas is all about love,giving,sharing christmas is all about Jesus Christ.
Criza, it’s ok. Hindi lang na appreciate nung mother yung gift mo. I guess masaya yung ka exchange gift mo though her mother is the one who does not appreciate. I like the bag. Kaya nga ako bilang magulang, sinasabi ko palagi sa PTA na tuwing exchange gift dapat may specific amount lang at walang lalagpas or below the said amount para walang lugi. Anyway, don’t be sad Criza. You’ll receive more gifts this holiday season. Mother of Criza, I know how you feel. Pabayaan mo na lang. Holiday season naman. Season of peace and love.
let’s teach our children to be grateful of what they receive…as parents, let’s not tolerate that kind of behavior,na sa2mahan pa Yong anak na bawiin Yong gift…Kaya nga exchange gift,eh…Yong student ko nga na la2ki, Yong nakuha pamba2e…hindi nman nambawi, Sabi na Lang ibibigay nya na Lang daw sa mama nya,total mhilig daw sa wallet…ibig Sabihin Yong ganitong mga sitwasyon,Yong magulang naturuan nila ng tama Yong anak nila na whatever you receive, accept it… because it is a gift….
Para sakin yung magulang Ng batang ngbalik Ng regalo sa young girl ang dapat turuan pa Ng GMRC. As a parents kahit ayaw pa Ng anak nia yung gift dapat inexplain nia na dapat ma appreciate yun. So sad kasi tingin ko kunsintidor ata parents nito kasi kahit mali pinabayaan lng.
Buti c sab ma appreciate sa lahat ng gift na natanggap nya.. eto pa bago sya mag xmas party gusto nya yang bag na pop it.. so inorder ko sya sa lazada kc mura lang talaga sya.. tapos natapos xmas party nya pag uwi nya nakuha nyang exchange gift eh yang bag na pop it tapos may laman na 50 pesos sobrang saya nya.. tapos maya maya dumating na ung inorder namin na pop it bag.. magkatulad na magkatulad sa nakuha nya na exchange gift pero mag ka iba lang kulay.. hahahaahah.. tumbling ako eh..🤣🤣pero ok lang basta masaya anak ko.. ok na ok na ako dun,😘😊
Tumanda kasi sa katukmulan kaya yun din ang gustong ipamana sa anak…🤣
That’s sad traumatic s mga bata ang ganyn. Mother is always at fault education starts at home, humility, empathy must be teach at early stage. Teach little ones to appreciate and value little things without price tag.
I think yong nanay ang ayaw sa gift,kasi yong mga bata naman ay kahit anong gift ma appreciate nila.Yong nanay ang nag react sa gift kaya nya isinauli..choosy ang mother.kasi yong pop it ay fidget toys ng mga merong ASD..dapat hindi ne return ang gift,nasasaktan yong bata..
Yung two kids ko nga e, exchange gift is worth 100 pesos pataas depende na lang sa parents… pero narecieve ng kinder ko is 2 sando which is ang laki pa pang 8 yrs old and wala pa sa 100 pesos. But he say okay lang daw sa kanya kasi kay kuya niya na lang daw. Yung grade two ko naman 65 pesos na toys na doctor set, okay lang din sa kanya masaya sila sa gift na narecieve nila. Sometimes magulang ang nagrereklamo sa mga gift na natatanggap ng anak nila..
i feel sori for Criza.2b honest traumatic po ung nangyari s knya.sna man lng ung parent ng niregaluhan pinaliwanagan nya ang anak nya to appreciate things may it be big or small.hindi ung sinamahan pa ang anak magbalik ng gift.parents pls let us teach our kids 2b appreciative lalo at Christmas spirit ang pinag uusapan.just saying lang po.
True there are people who are not appreciative of what they have kahit sa mga matured na baka sinanay sa mamahaling regalo yan ka exchange gift ni baby girl
I feel sad for the mother and her daughter kc nag effort un bata to choose what she thinks is the coolest and best gift she can give! May problema un mother and daughter na recipient kc ndi cla both marunong mag appreciate! Nakakasakit talaga ng loob pag ganyan 😟
OMG my daughter experienced a similar situation. She prepared gifts for the whole class and a few of her classmates refused to take one and one wants to return it .. I told her, its ok, you can still give it to others who will appreciate the thought not the amount of the gift..