Here’s Why Some People Have To Leave Your Life
Are you feeling so down because a lot of people have walked out of your life?
Undeniably, one of the saddest things that can happen to man is losing a connection with someone. It can be with a friend, a family, or someone who once meant the world to you.
However, no matter how painful it is, it is a reality and it is carved on the edges of life. No one is exempted from losing another person – something as inevitable as the changing of the weather.
BUT, there are actually a lot of good reasons why some people have to walk out of your life – whether you want it or not, or whether they want it or not.
Each of us is changing everyday. No matter how we would say that nothing has changed, by looking into the minute details, we would realize that nothing would be exactly as the way it is before.
Our connection, our passion, our likes, or what our souls are craving for may change direction in a blink of an eye. One who is after the sea cannot travel with someone who is after the forest.
Also, not everyone belongs in our lives. No matter how hard you try to keep them, they would be lessons if they are not meant to be for keeps.
It is just like this, in your connection with another person, 45% is up to you and the other 45% is up to that person. There is that 10% that is out of the control of either of you. This 10% includes the circumstances, the differences, and other factors that try to build a wall between you.
Some people have to walk out of your life as you cannot accommodate everyone. Your connection with 10 persons may not exactly remain as it is when there are twenty(20) new individuals in your life.
Undeniably, sometimes, friendship really needs a common ground – passion, work, lifestyle, beliefs, dreams, or anything that is solid – anything that scares off the 10% uncontrollable realities.