Lady Netizen Sparks Debate Online After Exposing Suitor’s Inappropriate Behavior
A lady netizen went viral and elicited reactions from the online community after exposing her suitor’s inappropriate behavior.
Dating norms have drastically changed in modern times, with traditional courtship rituals becoming less common. The serenades and formal visits to the family have mostly been replaced by dating apps and social media interactions.
However, these shifts sometimes lead to situations that spark intense discussions online.
Recently, the Facebook page “TCU Secret Files” shared the concern of an anonymous user about her dating experience with a classmate. The post garnered various reactions from the online community.
According to the post, the guy who initially appeared respectful and decent, expected physical intimacy after just their third date, despite only courting her for a month.
The female sender expressed disbelief, stating that she never expected such behavior from someone who had presented himself as well-mannered. She questioned the notion that a third date implies an expectation for intimacy, asking others for clarification.
The young woman includes screenshots of their conversation. In the exchange, the guy suggested that most people associate the “third date” with progressing the relationship physically.
The suitor further stated that his time felt wasted because they hadn’t reached that stage and even claimed he was “patient” for five weeks. In the end, he decided to end the courtship, saying they were incompatible.
Some internet users condemned the suitor for pressuring his date and using gaslighting tactics, while others shared similar personal experiences.
Here is the full post:
“Third date means s3x?
Hi I would just like to clarify kung totoo ba tong saying na to? He started courting me as a decent man kaya di ko ineexpect na magiging ganyan sya.
Magkaklase kami pero 1 month palang syang nanliligaw gusto na agad may mangyari samin.
Lakas pa mang-gaslight kasi nasayang daw oras nya sakin. Pero totoo po bang third date means s3x?
Hailey”
The social media users expressed their reactions to the post:
