Lady Vlogger Shares Perspective on Life in Her 30s
A lady vlogger elicited various reactions online after sharing her thoughts about life now that she’s in her 30s.
Recently, Ethereal Joy, a Facebook user, shared her reflections about life now that she’s in her 30s. The post immediately spread like wildfire on social media and garnered comments from the online community.
Joy explained how her priorities and energy levels have shifted with age. These days, she finds herself turning down more invitations and events, not because she dislikes the people reaching out, but simply because she feels more limited in time and energy.
Even replying to simple messages has become a challenge, often taking her a couple of days to respond.
The lady vlogger shared how she values rest and cherishes her quiet moments. Instead of spreading herself thin, she prefers spending her energy on her close circle of meaningful relationships.
Her work-life balance has also changed, as she prioritizes routines that allow her to spend more time with her child. For her, being present for her family has become a non-negotiable part of life.
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Joyce reflected on how her preferences and outlook have changed over the years, unsure if it’s due to age, her circumstances, or simply her shifting priorities. Whatever the reason, she embraces these changes as part of her personal growth.
The content creator acknowledged the unavoidable changes as she moves through life. She expressed her hope that those who might feel neglected by her would understand her choices and intentions.
Here is the full post:
“I don’t know if it’s just me, now that I am in my mid-30ish, sobrang dami ko ng events and invites na dini-decline. Not because I don’t like the person who’s inviting me. Or I want to avoid them.
Just that, ako talaga mismo parang nakukulangan na ako sa energy ko and even sa time na parang naghahabol pa nga ako.
Even simple chats and reply, nahihirapan na din ako. Sorry talaga if I replied in 2 days timeframe. Dahil talaga minsan gusto ko nalang yung nagpapahinga at higa-higa.
Like yung natitirang energy ko I want to spend it nalang with the small circle na meron talaga akong “involvement” at malalim na “relationship”.
Yung in every aspects ng buhay ko, lalo na yung work ko is nakakasama ko yung anak ko. Parang I don’t want to compromise, gusto ko kasama ko talaga siya sa routine ko.
So hindi ko alam kung ako ba yung nagbago or dahil talaga sa age ko, or sa situation at preference ko sa buhay ay nagbago na.
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Again, I am in my 30ish. Few years today, as I read this post nasa 40ish na ako. So I am very sorry if you felt neglected.
I will try my best to give you a hug even in the corridor where we can pass by.
Love,
Joyce”
The social media users expressed their reactions to the post:
