In an interview, Tom Rodriguez talked about overcoming the dark times.
Kapuso actor Tom Rodriguez speaks about what he learned after that difficult phase of separation from actress Carla Abellana.
GMA stars Carla Abellana and Tom Rodriguez have been together as a couple for many years but their marriage lasted just for three months. Many people are still wondering why they’ve ended up this way after everything they went through as the former couple remained mum about the particular details of their separation.
In a previous article, Tom talked about meeting Carla again. According to him, he is ready for this possibility. After a couple of years of showbiz hiatus, he is now back for good and since the entertainment industry is just a small world especially both of them are under the same network, he is ready for the possibility of crossing paths with her.
“For me, honestly, I don’t think it matters to me much. We have our own paths and our own lives now and I wish her well on hers,” he said and expressed well-wishes for her.
In a recent interview with Fast Talk With Boy Abunda, the actor talked about the separation. He became open in expressing his thoughts and admitted that after they separated, there was a time when he was in pure devastation. He was in pain and devastated to the point that he was already thinking of something irreversible such as ending his own life.
What stopped was the thought of his nephews. He considered how this action would affect them. He expressed, “I thought I owe them more than that. And now I owe my younger self that you can go through the hardest unos, bagyo, kahit ano ang dumaan sa buhay mo, as long as you find that integrity within yourself again.”
Tom’s lesson learned
Going through a difficult time of separation, what he learned was to learn how to handle the external noises in a calm way. But despite being back to square one and being at the lowest point of his life, he realized that there are still a lot of things to be thankful for.
He added this about love, “Natutunan ko rin about love, you have to live and vibrate in a frequency of love. Kasi yung itanim mo, fear, takot, kaba. Yung aanihin mo, insecurity, kamalasan. At kapag ganoon, wala na talaga.”
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