Lady Employee Shares Frustration Over Mom Holding Her ATM Card & Withholding Salary

Lady Employee Frustrated Over Mother Holding Her ATM Card

A lady employee expressed her frustration over her mom holding her ATM card and withholding her salary.

Recently, the Facebook page Viral Ngayon shared her frustration, revealing how her mother took control of her ATM card and salary, leaving her feeling restricted. The post garnered various reactions from the online community.

According to the lady employee, she had been working for a year when her mother decided to take charge of her finances, hoping to help her save. Initially, she didn’t mind, as it allowed her to set aside money despite her modest salary.

Lady Employee

Thanks to her mother’s efforts, they even managed to save P50,000 and make home improvements, which she greatly appreciated.

However, over time, things took a turn. She began feeling deprived of her earnings. Her mother now only gives her small amounts for transportation and food, withdrawing the rest of the money herself.

The female worker shared that while she doesn’t know exactly where the saved money is kept, her mother recently bought phones for herself and her siblings using funds from her salary.

She’s now torn between continuing the arrangement and finding a way to regain control of her money. She’s considering reporting her ATM card as lost to her HR department so she can get a replacement. But she hesitates, worried that her family might see it as selfish.

While some supported her desire to take charge of her finances, others pointed out the importance of saving and working together for the family’s needs.

In a previous report, a lady employee dies after being involved in accident at fire cracker factory

Here is the full post:

One year na ako nagwowork nung naisipan ni mama na sya na ang mghahawak ng ATM card ko dahil di talaga ako nakapagipon noon. Okay naman sakin noon mga una kasi si mama nakatulong na makapagipon ako kahit di ganun maykalakihan sinsahod ko.

Kaya lang sa katagalan ang ngyyari ako na ang pnagdadamutan. Di na ako nkakabili ng pansarili ko, kahit gumala o pangkain sa labas di ako pwede bumawas sa snasahod ko. Di ko maienjoy ang pera ko kasi kelangan magipon. Nakapagipon si mama sa sahod ko ng 50k at nakapag pagawa kami ng bahay. Natuwa naman ako pero ayun nga ngayon di ko na mhawakan pera ko, bibigyan lang nya ako pangjip, unti pangkain tapos lahat iwwthdraw nya tapos di ko alam nsaan, basta nkatabi daw. Pero may b!nili sya fone sknila dalawa ng kapatid ko galing sa sinahod ko. Naiiisip ko sabhin sa HR na nawala ATM card ko para mapalitan sana para ako na maghahawak.

Pagdadamot na ba yun sa pamilya ko pag ginawa ko? Di ko rin kasi magawa magOL kasi binabudget ni mama yung sinasahod ko at siya daw nagiipon. Hindi ko lang din alam sa ngayon kung saan niya itinabi ang sinasabi niyang ipon ko. Sana nga may ipon talaga.

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1 thought on “Lady Employee Shares Frustration Over Mom Holding Her ATM Card & Withholding Salary”

  1. mga nanay huwag pakialaman ang atm or sahod ng anak. She worked hard for it. She deserves to hold her ATM or her salary. She has also her needs. if ever she will give a share to you. its alright. Puede tanggapin
    or puwede hindi. kawawa ang anak mong nagtrabaho. Let her manage her own finances. It is our happiness that our children has work. That they can stand for their own. Give them freedom to manage their own money. You as a daughter you need to communicate to your mother about what you feel. its a matter of communication. tell her about your feelings in a modest and respectful way. Try to see the result. If you can not do it. Then, do your first plan, that your atm card was lost.

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