Lady Student Shares Mom’s Reactions After Receiving Her Report Card “Ayusin mo pag aaral mo”
A lady student shared the reaction of her mom after receiving her report card “wala ka sa top? Ayusin mo pag aaral mo”
In the world of education, grades are often used as a measure of a student’s academic achievement. From the moment we enter the school system, we are taught to strive for good grades, and they are often viewed as a reflection of our intelligence and potential for success.
However, while grades can be an important indicator of academic progress, they do not define a person as a whole.
Firstly, grades do not take into account the unique talents, skills, and strengths of an individual. While one student may excel in mathematics and receive top grades in the subject, another may struggle in math but have a natural talent for music, art, or athletics.
Recently, Erica Balila, a Facebook user, shared images of her report card and the response of her mother. The post quickly went viral online, eliciting a wide range of comments from the internet community.
In the photos, Erica receives high marks on the majority of her subjects. She receives a ’98’ in Technical Vocational Education (TVE) and an ’80’ in Entrepreneurship. Her academic performance is above average.
Unfortunately, Balila’s mother was not impressed with her academic performance. Erica’s mother questioned her ranking in the class. The furious woman chastised the female student for her grades.
Here is the full post:
“disappointed sa grades, disappointed den sa sarili”
The social media users expressed their reactions to the post:
What can you say about her grades? Just feel free to leave your comments and reactions to this article.
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Same din ang suffering ko. Pinapagalitan ako pagmaybaba akong grade.
kawawa nman ung anak nya need b tlaga mag top? mga anak ko nga pasado lng ok na eh importante mkapagtapos ng kolehiyo kwawa ang mga bata kung ganyan mga mgulang kya yung iba nkkaisip ng hindi maganda..matutuwa ako kung ganyan grades ng anak ko..anong klaseng magulang yan hays
Bawal kapag makikita sa post lahat details ng student. Pero kung ang makikita lang sa post ay grades wala naman problema.
Wag kn sad, galing2 mo nga eh👏👏👏just make it as your motivation to strive more, alam q malayo p mrrating ng mga grades n yan…
Congratulations!!!
Anak ko nga nag taasan naman Ang grades pero Wala din siya sa top umiyak siya kasi disappoint siya pero Sabi ko ok lang Yan bawi ka next grading kinulang kasi yung points niya para makaabot siya ng 90%..dapat ibahin nating mga magulang Ang mindset Natin about sa grades kasi sating mga magulang kumukuha ng lakas Ang mga bata para sa pag aaral nila kapag nakikita nilang very supportive tayo sakanila in the nice ways magiging magaling at lalo silang magsisipag sa pag aaral..hndi yung tayo pa Ang nagiging reason nila para panghina sila ng loob kaya maraming suicide na mga kabataan ngaun lalo na kung about sa mga grades nila kasi tayo kagad Ang nag di discriminate sakanila ..
There are different ways of pushing a child to do better. Her mum knows how it should be done that’s why she said what she said.
Take it on a different perspective, my dear. She probably just wanted to bring out the best in you. And if her words did really hurt, you are big enough to put it across to her without having to shame her on socmed.
#justmy2cents
True, take it as a challenge but do it the way you know. Take a rest whenever you need one but always remember you have goal to achieve
Kawawa nmn si Ate actually in the same situation kami like first time ko mag ka line of 8 pero ung nanay ko ganan din Ang reaction…pag Hindi daw Ako nakabawi Hindi na daw nila ako oapag aralin sa school na gusto ko pero nasa with Honors pa rin Ako but my mom is still not satisfied gusto Nia na kagaya ko Sia ung laging line of nine at pinakamababa ay 93 like okeh? so Ano? Kaya Hindi ko na alam Ang gagawin kc naprepressure na Ako sa nanay ko un lang nmn share ko lang at sorry sainyo kung ganto Rin ang situation nyo at kawawa si Ate pero sana nmn ma satisfied na ung nanay nya sa grade nya at sa mga kagaya lang Ng situation na un…
“Her mum knows how it should be done” & “There are different ways of pushing a child to do better.” you just pointed out that there are different ways of pushing a child to do better? so you understand that what she did is not a good method for the child, you can just motivate your child by saying positive not saying negative against the child, and you can’t push it to the child to take the different perspective as people have different mental capacity and emotional capacity, maybe for you? you can take that but for some they can’t, world is not revolving around you my dear take note, you can’t just advice specifically because of your experience as you can’t apply that mindset to all people 🙂
ganiyan din nangyari sa’kin. sending virtual hugs to anyone na naranasan ‘yan. im so proud of you guys.💗💗💗
this is why students fear failure. their mindset is to be great at all subjects. i dont understand why parents have to acknowledge the negative side of their child’s grades and not motivate them to do better instead. they just cant accept the fact that grades doesnt define someone future.
napaka walang konsiderasyon na magulang at hindi na marunong makuntento at never appreciated sa mga pagsisikap ng anak sus marya uy🙄🙄🙄
kaya nga, medyo parang pinagbantaan pa nga itakwil ang anak. Basura kasi ang ugali yang magulang niya eh saka medyo makapal ang mukha saka makasarili ng parents niya
we all know that parents want them to have a happier life and I can get the parent’s perspective, but as we look at the girl’s perspective, she did her best and that’s what her mother would say. Now that’s bullock parenting right there
Valedictorian k b? kawawa nmn ung anak mo masiyahan k na sa grades niya. matataas na d ka paakuntento.
true
Di rin maganda ipost ng student reaction ng parent nya, may pinagmanahan….
Everybody is unique. So we cannot judge how her mother reacted to her daughters grades. i just hope she continues to get good grades and use it as a motivation and not bear a grudge against her parents.
Bka nmn kc dati nsa top ka ng klase kya gnon?
Pinaalalahanan k lng nmn cguro kc bka nga nmn nagpabaya ka? Sayang nga nmn ang talino mo kung kya mo nmng mkakuha ng mataas kya tlgang mataas ang expectation sa yo. Kung talagang nagsikap k, wlang sinayang na oras at di tlga nagpabaya na tlagang yan lng tlaga ang nkayanan mo eh dpat na mtuwa kp rin at ang mga mgulang mo.
Ang pagkakaroon kc ng honor sa klase ay bonus na lng yan, ang importante kc a nag-aral kng mbuti, wlang sinayamg na oras at mas binigyan mo ng halaga ang iyong kalusugan, physically amd mentally.
Pagdating kc ng araw ay ikaw rin nmn ang mkikinabang nyan lalo na at pagdating ng kolehiyo. Dyan kc mraming nhihirapan lalo na at di sanay na mag-aral, mraming bumabagsak at lalong tinatamad ng mag-aral. Ikaw rin nmn ang mkikinabangnyan sa bandang huli.
Pagbutihin mo lng at ipakita mong di k nmn nagpabaya at naging responsable kng mag-aaral ay wlang magulang na di makakaunawa sa kanyang anak.
Wag mong msamain ang mga sinabi nla bka nmn kc tlgang nagpabaya ka?
Being responsible ay ksama sa dpat na ntutunan ng mga anak sa magulang. Kung sila ay mga nagsusumikap ay suklian mo rin ng pagsusumikap.
Nsa huli kc ang pagsisi kc sayang nga nmn ang talino mo kung kaya mo nmng mapabilang sa top ng klase mo. Balang-araw ang msasabi mo sa sarili mo ay di mo na maibabalik kailan man ang panahon na sinayang mo sa wlang kapararakang bagay.
ok naman grades nya eh .. ako bilang isang magulang .. as long as ginagawa mo best mo hanggang makatapos ka and God will bless you …
Am a mother of three ladies , and before them , of course, i was once a student like them. Not just one of those students, but i was once an academic scholar in highschool where i needed to maintain my grades not lower than 85 % general average. And i did it for three high school years, but you know what?? The painful truth, i wasn’t able to finish high school… because i got married early and wasn’t able to finish my education. So , where are my high grades then????
My point here is, my high grades didn’t define my success at all! When i came overseas as a domestic helper, my grades in school didn’t matter at all, dahil dito sa abroad at sa type of job i landed to, di rin required ang high grades o kaya eloquent English or high mathematical understanding… ganun lang .. so when time for my kids to get to school, i DIDN’T REQUIRE OR OBLIGE them to be topnotchers in school, what i taught them is to study hard and finish their education cos i don’t want them to land as helpers “katulong” lang like me (tho’ I don’t degrade the job i am into) , i wanted them to be educated to get better jobs and better opportunities in life. So to cut it short, grades don’t define my kids, but on how they conquer obstacles in life with their skills .
Kakaproud pa rin naman ang grades na ganyan. With highest honors pa dati anak ko and laging nasa top. Pero ngayon grade 7 na sya marami nang line of 8 sa grades nya. Pero iba na mindset ko ngayon. As long as walang failure, okay na sa akin. Mas hangad ko pa rin makita syang masaya at healthy.
PAMBIHIRA 😞
May mga magulang talagang mga mukang grade. Di na lang sumuporta sa mga anak at matuwa sa nakayanan ng bata lalo na’t nagsusumikap naman sa pag-aaral. Ano magagawa kung yun lang nakayanan o baka naman may mas magaling at mas masipag lang talaga na kaklase. Di pare-pareho utak ng tao. Unahin mo physical at mental health ng anak mo kaysa sa medalya na iuuwi sayo.
As a student in elementery i was at the FL or star section my grades are good other may say but my parents still compare me since my classmates average are 95,96, 97 and me having 91 but atleast i graduated honor. When i arrived at high school it changes I’m not at the SOC(Science Oriented Class) the star section i’m just at sps for sports program my grades are not as good as before thats when i realiazed that im not as i used to be before my grades are becomes lower and lower from 90+ in Gr.7 to 93 in Gr. 8 and 87 in Gr. 9 in my 9th grade i struggle so much 3 of my family members died in a span of 1 and a half month thats when the sy started as i struggle to keep my grades my parents are always angry cause i dont have a grade on that subject im always late im always absent and not doing good in my studies they don’t know that i become depressed about my family members passing affecting my grades and studies now that i’m in grade 10 i struggle to understand math in first quarter so i got 79 but do good in other subjects like 91 on english 87 in science but my parents just see the 79 so i studied hard finally after a year of stressed from my grade 9 I’m able to have honor again being 95 my highest grade and 89 lowest grade and i guess they are happy but not so happy. im persuing stem in my 11th so i really need i high grade specially in math and science
in the real world they would look at ur performance and not ur grades. So kapit lang sa massipag nting estudyante. U guys did a good job. If ganyan c mommy, study well not for your parents but for yourself.Hopefully this wont stop u from running your own race. Godbless!